February 18, 2014

All about Seth

Seth has been having a hard time in school.  According to his teacher, that may be an understatement.  Since we don't have a neuro-psych exam scheduled for a few more months, we are trying a variety of other "fixes" to the issues in the classroom.  One is the smiley chart.  It's a chart that allows him to get a smile, neutral or frowny face for any of 36 different activities during his school day.  It's rigorous and probably too much (frankly) but we are trying it.

The first few days of the chart were a mixed bag.  Some smiles for sure, a bunch of "a-ok" faces and some frownies too.  Seth and I would review the chart at night and discuss how we could potentially improve on the number of smiles.

Imagine my surprise when, on February 13 -- just seven school days after starting the chart -- Seth comes home with this:

In case you can't see it, he got all smilies.  ALL SMILEYS.  Prior to that day, we had discussed that the first time he got no frownies, we would have a Steiner Pig Out.  I figured at some point, he would get a bunch of A-Ok and a bunch of smiles and we would celebrate.  I had no idea he would get ALL smiles!  So celebrate we did!

First we had a pig-out, which consists of ice cream for dinner.  We also had some chips, just for good measure.

 Then Seth insisted on a dance party and who are we to disagree?

 It's been a long time since I've seen my first-born that affirmed and pleased with himself.  Thank you, Jesus!
 This picture is my boys.... being the pea-shooters that kill the zombies in Plants vs. Zombies.  Oh love....

We are praying that Seth's streak of great behavior can continue after the long weekend.  Way to go, buddy!


 

February 15, 2014

The Search Continues.....

This week, our team in Uganda set out to search for Leah's biological family.  According to her file, she had been abandoned on the door step of a police officer, shortly after her birth.  As with many things in International adoption, I did not know whether to believe this story -- particularly because every child seems to have been "abandoned."  

Our searchers first called the telephone number of the officer who found Leah.  While she had been transferred many miles away, she still had the same phone number, was still an officer, and remembered quite clearly the day she found Leah.  Our team met with her and showed her photographs of Leah.  We have a picture of her!  Yay!!  The officer also sweetly remembered collecting money from her fellow officers to purchase Leah some milk before taking her to the orphanage.

Next, the searchers went to the actual location where Leah was found.  It is here, on this step, that Leah was gently laid at just a couple of days old.

When I think about what that must have been like for her birth mom {or whoever carried her there} my breath catches in my throat.  Carefully placed at the steps of a place she knew she would be safe.  
Thank you, Jesus.  All of this is just so emotional.

In the summary of the visit that day, our team said as follows:  

"We also had a God moment (honestly I felt the Holy Spirit on me when it happened and knew it was due to the prayers in the US).  We were in the car, just about to leave the village and the [community leader] in 2008 turned up and spoke to us. . . . She then took us to the [police] house at the time in 2008 and I took a photo of the house and the step where Leah was found."  

YOUR prayers.... our prayers.... thank you Jesus!!!
Before this week, I had nothing to tell or share with Leah about her past.  Precisely zero.  Now, her story has been confirmed.  I have photographs of the lovely lady who found her, the place she was found and some {private} stories for Leah about those first days.  Yay!

The second day of the searching, our team followed up on two other leads in Leah's file.  It turns out that they did not relate to Leah and are likely the story of another child at her orphanage.  BUT they have been addressed and put to bed.  For that, I am extremely grateful.  I am also glad to know that Leah's story {while tough} is true and that she was left at this door in what must have been a wrenching act of sacrifice and love.

We know that people in small communities like to talk after events like this week so we are PRAYING that when our team returns to the village next week, something may have come up with regard to Leah's birth family.  Will you continue to pray with us that her biological family will come forward?

He is faithful.

February 8, 2014

It's time!

On Tuesday and Wednesday of THIS WEEK, our Ugandan friends will be searching for Leah's biological family. I am so excited! And nervous and every other emotion you can think of. But I know this much: we need to PRAY that they will identify someone. This is not a given. In fact, my people have told me to get as many people praying as I can and to beg for a miracle. Will you please intercede with us? More to come!


100 day whaaaaa?!?!?

Schools do this {weird} 100 day celebration thing. Yea, yea, yea. I know why. It still just cracks me up! 
We kicked off the morning by getting that done. 

This may be the only time I ever purchase Fruit Loops for my children.... enjoy it while it lasts, stinkers! 









 This 100-day celebration, brought to you by Kellogg's. 
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