December 31, 2014

Christmas 2014!

I didn't take the usual 4,372 pictures this Christmas, so here are a few to remind us of the end of 2014!

 This one.... home.  Two years.  <3 p="">



































Merry Christmas and bring on 2015!!!!!!!!!!!!

December 9, 2014

Heard Around Our 'Hood -- Seth and the God Book

Seth has been asking tons of questions about Jesus, God, heaven, faith . . . all of it.  I love talking with him about it.  It can also, however, be overwhelming as he's a thinker (for sure!) and I don't pretend to have all of the answers!  Here are a couple of our conversations (all of which happen at bedtime):

A few nights ago, I was putting the kids to bed and Seth -- like only he can -- was engaged in calisthenics in the hallway while I was tucking in Zechariah and Leah.  By the time I reached his room, I was completely exasperated ready to be done with bedtime and I asked him, "Seth.  Why can't you just get in your bed and wait for me to come snuggle you?"  He didn't hesitate:

"Mommmm.  Because people are sinners!"

Um, what?  What did you say?  I asked.  He wouldn't repeat it.  I said, "Did you say people are sinners?"  {slowly nods head}

Let's pause for a moment because I think I must explain that we haven't used that language in our house.  We talk about good choices and bad choices and God's forgiveness, but I hadn't yet introduced the sin concept.

So we continued:  Where did you hear that?  {crickets}   Church?  No.  School?  Nope.  Did I tell you about sin?  Nuh uh.  So who?  Nothing.

With a deep breath, I started to explain sin and how Jesus died for our forgiveness.  For our sins.  I laid it all out.  I told him we all sin.  And, he went right where I was afraid he would go:  "Why doesn't Zechariah sin?"  No, no, no!!!  Of course Zechariah sins.  "Well, like three times."  No.  More than three times.  Commence lengthy conversation about allllll the different types of sin, seen and unseen.  My word, this child.  By the end he was probably more confused than not.  But we both survived.

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A few nights later, we read about Jacob's ladder in our Advent book and this started a conversation about heaven.  Seth asked a bunch of questions which led to "What does it mean that Jesus PAID for all the sin?"  I explained how Jesus was crucified, died, went down into hell to pay for our sins, and then rose again and lives in heaven forever.

Does not compute.

So we talked Aslan.  How he exchanged places with Edmond, who was supposed to be killed, and was killed instead.  Bingo.  He got it.  The next questions were all about hell and what that means and where it is and what it's like.  I just quoted scripture, over and over.  Because really, heck if I know!  By the end of the conversation Seth was certain he wants to go to heaven and loves Jesus.  He does NOT want to go to hell.  Me neither, buddy.  Me neither.

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I have conversations like these and then can't help but look to the future, when I dream of taking all three kiddos to Uganda to be baptized together in the Nile River.  Oh how I long for that day!
To God be the Glory!

Heard Around Our 'Hood -- Boys will be Boys

Last night at dinner, we were sharing highs and lows from our day.
Zechariah said, tears cracking in his voice, "My low is:  today, someone called me ugly."

Naturally, I immediately flew into protection mode, telling Zechariah that not only is that ridiculous because he is a gorgeous human being but that the joy that radiates from his heart makes him even more handsome.

But as I spoke, I was cut off.

Seth broke in and asked, "Who said that?"
What happened next is one of those moments where I just had to step back, stifle laughter, and watch as my children, these siblings, became love.

Seth explained to Zechariah how he was going to hunt down this fourth or fifth grader, and he was going to take-him-down.  Yes, that's right.  Seth is going to beat up that bad boy and teach him a lesson.  And I smiled.

I don't condone fighting.  Heck, we are practically pacifists over here.  In that moment, though, Zechariah needed outrage.  He needed his brother.  Seth came through with brilliant colors and the bond between those two knuckleheads was even further strengthened.

Ah, boys will be boys.  

How could I not....




My babies.
My hearts.

A turkey, a grinch and a tree

Thanksgiving was load of fun as we cooked and then hosted Grandma and Papa for lunch.  Yum!

 Seth bonded with Papa over football, and tucked his foot firmly in Papa's pocket.





 And Zechariah showed off his mad reading skillz.  

On Saturday, we went to see The Grinch Who Stole Christmas off Broadway.
What a hoot.


 We all tried for our best Grinch face.
 Leah WINS.


 Zechariah can't even attempt to be grinchy....
 And then there's this one.... Hah.
Sunday, we put up the tree and got ready for Advent.











We are ready to celebrate the arrival of our Savior!
Merry Christmas!!!